Three things parents need to do when their kid comes out as Transgender or Non-Binary
American Academy of Pediatrics: Supporting & Caring for Transgender Children: This PDF guide is for anyone who knows a transgender or gender-expansive child. It explains what medical and education experts know about transgender children, explores some myths about gender transition in childhood, and offers suggestions for adults with a transgender child in their life.
WPATH: World Professional Association for Transgender Health is a 501(c)(3) non-profit, interdisciplinary professional and educational organization devoted to transgender health. WPATH publishes the Standards of Care and Ethical Guidelines, which articulate a professional consensus about the psychiatric, psychological, medical, and surgical management of gender dysphoria and help professionals understand the parameters within which they may offer assistance to those with these conditions.
Gender Spectrum helps to create gender sensitive and inclusive environments for all children and teens. Their website provides resources, on-line groups, and information about their family and professional conference.
The Family Acceptance Project® is a research, intervention, education and policy initiative that works to prevent health and mental health risks for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) children and youth, including suicide, homelessness and HIV – in the context of their families, cultures and faith communities.
Gender Odyssey is an international conference focused on the needs and interests of transgender and gender diverse children of all ages, their families and supporters, and the professionals who serve them.
The Trevor Project was founded in 1998 by the creators of the Academy Award®-winning short film TREVOR. The Trevor Project is the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer & questioning (LGBTQ) young people under 25. Their crisis line number is 1-866-488-7386.
Human Rights Campaign represents a force of more than 3 million members and supporters nationwide. As the largest national lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer civil rights organization, HRC envisions a world where LGBTQ people are ensured of their basic equal rights, and can be open, honest and safe at home, at work and in the community.
GLSEN provides resources to create safe and affirming schools for all, regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression.
The National Center for Transgender Equality advocates to change policies and society to increase understanding and acceptance of transgender people. In the nation’s capital and throughout the country, NCTE works to replace disrespect, discrimination, and violence with empathy, opportunity, and justice.
Families for Transgender Equality (FTE) is a network of families with trans youth, and groups that support these families, who all want to change policies and society to improve trans people’s lives.
Services & Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Elders (SAGE USA) is the country’s largest and oldest organization dedicated to improving the lives of LGBT older people. Founded in 1978 and headquartered in New York City, SAGE is a national organization that offers supportive services and consumer resources to LGBT older people and their caregivers.
Modern Military Association of America was formed through the merger of the American Military Partner Association and OutServe-SLDN, the Modern Military Association of America is the nation’s largest non-profit organization for the LGBTQ military and veteran community.
GLAAD the world's lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) media advocacy organization promoting and ensuring fair, accurate and inclusive coverage for LGBT people.
The Center for Transyouth Health and Development at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles is dedicated to providing affirming care for transgender and gender diverse children, adolescents, young adults and their families. As one of the oldest and largest transyouth programs, the Center partners with youth and their families to advance the field through innovative practice, training and research LOCATION: Children's Hospital Los Angeles 5000 Sunset Blvd., 4th Floor, Los Angeles, CA 90027 CONTACT: CONTACT: Jamie Julian, LCSW Ph: 323-361-5372 | Fax: 323-913-3614 Services Provided:
Family support services and linkage to outside resources
Case management services, including assistance with legal name and gender marker changes
Peer Support groups
Sexual health education including groups, one-on-one navigation services and HIV/STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) screening and treatment.
Access to PEP (Post Exposure Prophylaxis) and PrEP (Pre Exposure Prophylaxis) for HIV prevention.
Voluntary participation in ground breaking research
The UCLA Gender Health Program strives to offer comprehensive medical and surgical care to the transgender and gender diverse community in Los Angeles and across the country. We bring together experts from medical and surgical disciplines to deliver a broad array of services to our patients. Recognized by the Human Rights Campaign Foundation as a "Leader in LGBTQ Health Equality," UCLA Health specializes in providing sensitive, safe, compassionate care to all patients who come through our doors. CONTACT: Ph: 310-267-4334 | Email The UCLA Gender Health Program offers:
Primary Care Services
Hormone Therapy
Facial Reconstruction and Body Modification
Chest/Top Surgery
Genital Reconstructive Services/Bottom Surgery
Obstetrics
Reproductive Health and Fertility Services
Behavioral Health Services
Vocal Surgery
Case Management and Care Coordination
St. John’s Well Child & Family Center (Warner Traynham Clinic) Offers transgender medical services, and is a valuable resource for lower-income and non-insured families. LOCATION: 326 West 23rd St., Los Angeles, CA 90007 CONTACT: Diana Feliz Olivia, MSW, Program Coordinator (for New Patient Appointments) Ph: 323-541-1600 ext 1068 Services Provided:
Hormone replacement therapy
Comprehensive healthcare, dental and mental health services
Assistance with name/gender change
HIV testing, counseling and treatment
Health insurance enrollment
Case management/referral services
Los Angeles LGBT Center Provides services for more LGBT people than any other organization in the world, offering programs, services, and global advocacy that span four broad categories: Health, Social Services and Housing, Culture and Education, Leadership and Advocacy. LOCATION: 1625 N. Schrader Boulevard Los Angeles, CA 90028-6213 CONTACT: 323-993-7400 Services Provided:
HIV and AIDS Specialty Care
Primary Medical Care
HIV and STD Testing and Prevention
Mental Health Services
Violence Prevention & Survivor Support
Addiction Recovery Services
Research
Pharmacy
The UCI Health Pediatric Gender Diversity Program offers Orange County's only interdisciplinary program dedicated to caring for transgender and gender-expansive children, teens and young adults. LOCATION: 101 The City Drive South, Pavilion 3, Building 29, Orange, CA 92868 Ph: 714-456-6025 | Fax: 714-456-8808 | Email: Brit Cervantes Services for children, adolescents, and young adults include:
Patient and family counseling
Puberty suppression
Gender-affirming hormone therapy
Community connections and support
Southern California Reproductive Center LOCATION: 23365 Hawthorne Blvd, Ste 102B, Torrance, CA 90505 CONTACT: 424-299-4551 $8,000 for Egg harvesting $500 for sperm collection $700 a year for storage
LOCATION: 444 S San Vincent Blvd Ste 1002, Los Angeles, CA 90048 CONTACT: Dr. Erica Wang | Ph: 310-423-9964 Oocyte cryopreservation
The Health Coverage Guide is an interactive tool for transgender people, our families, and caregivers seeking coverage for transition-related care, offering step-by-step instructions for learning what your plan covers and to get pre-authorizations for transition-related care. It’s designed especially for people with private insurance and Medicaid, with resources for those with Medicare as well.
Trans Legal Services Network (TLSN) is a project of the National Center for Transgender Equality. It helps ensure every transgender person can navigate the complicated name and gender change processes, and confidently addresses other legal issues they may face.
St. John's Transgender Clinic offers support for name and gender change. Click the link for a free PDF brochure.
Lambda Legal is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, is a national organization committed to achieving full recognition of the civil rights of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender persons, and persons living with HIV through impact litigation, education and public policy work.
ACLU works in courts, legislatures, and communities to defend and preserve the individual rights and liberties that the Constitution and the laws of the United States guarantee everyone in this country.
Transmen (FTM)
Transwomen (MTF)
Laser Clinics
Electrolysis
Voice Therapy
Transforming Family is a Los Angeles based family support group creating a positive environment for children, adolescents, and their families to explore issues of gender identity. To ensure the privacy of the families attending Transforming Family, they do not publish the time, date, or location of their meetings. If you'd like to attend a Transforming Family meeting, please contact them and they will be in touch as soon as possible.
South Bay LGBT Center: The Lesbian, Gay, Bi & Transgender Community Organization's mission is to provide a focal point for the members of our community in the South Bay for education, social interaction, personal growth, and political power, and to foster public understanding of our community. The Center offers groups, activities, resources and support for local area LGBTQ individuals and families. LOCATION: 16610 Crenshaw Blvd. Torrance, CA 90504 CONTACT: 310-328-6550
The LGBTQ Center Long Beach The LGBTQ Center Long Beach advances equity for LGBTQ people through culturally responsive advocacy, education, programs, and services. The Center provides Mental Health Counseling, Legal Services, Social Services, Education & Resources, Cultural Programs and Events. LOCATION: 2017 East 4th Street, Long Beach, CA 90814 CONTACT: 562-434-4455
Transfamilies.org Trans Families is a nonprofit organization that has been supporting transgender people and their families since 2008. They run online parent support groups, a trans youth leadership program, special topics groups, and youth support groups.
Books for Parents and Families
Raising My Rainbow by Lori Duron
The Gender Creative Child: Pathways for Nurturing and Supporting Children Who Live Outside Gender - Boxes by Diane Ehrensaft Ph.D.
The Transgender Child: A Handbook for Families and Professionals by Stephanie Brill and Rachel Pepper
The Transgender Teen by Stephanie Brill and Lisa Kenney
Gender Born, Gender Made: Raising Healthy Gender Nonconforming Children by Diane Ehrensaft Ph.D.
Trans-Kin: A Guide for Family and Friends of Transgender People by Eleanor A. Hubbard, Cameron T. Whitley
Transgender Children and Youth: Cultivating Pride and Joy with Families in Transition by Elijah Neely
Transitions of the Heart: Stories of Love, Struggle and Acceptance by Mothers of Transgender and Gender Variant Children by Rachel Pepper
Books for Children
Annie’s Plaid Shirt (pre-K-2) by Stacy B. Davids
The Boy & the Bindi (Pre-K-2) by Vivek Shraya
Bunnybear (Pre-K-1) by Andrea J. Loney
I am Jazz (K-5) by Jessica Hershel and Jazz Jennings
Introducing Teddy: A gentle story about gender and friendship (Pre-K-K) by Jess Walton
It Feels Good to Be Yourself (Pre-K-3) by Theresa Thorn
Jacob’s New Dress (Pre-K-2) by Sarah and Ian Hoffman
Julian is a Mermaid (Pre-K-2) by Jessica Love
The Pants Project (3-6) by Cat Clarke
Red: A Crayon’s Story (Pre-K-1) by Michael Hall
They, She, He Easy as ABC (Pre-K-1) by Maya and Matthew Smith-Gonzalez
When Aidan Became a Big Brother (Pre-K-2) by Kyle Lukoff and Kaylani Juanita
Zenobia July (5-6) by Lisa Bunker
George (K-5) by Alex Gino
Transgender Topics
Transgender 101: A Simple Guide to a Complex Issue by Nicholas M. Teich
Trans Forming Families: Real Stories about Transgendered Loved Ones by Jessica Xavier, Mary Boenke and Arlene Istar Lev
Tomorrow Will Be Different by Sarah McBride
Becoming a Visible Man by Jamison Green
She’s Not There: A Life in Two Genders by Jennifer Finney Boylan
Through the Door of a Life: A Jewish Journey Between Genders by Joy Ladin
Gender outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us by Kate Bornstein
Stuck in the Middle with You: A Memoir of Parenting in Three Genders by Jennifer Finney Boylan
Making Mr. Wright: Memoirs of a Black Female-to-Male Transsexual by Reno Prestige Wright
Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More by Janet Mock
Becoming Nicole: The Transformation of an American Family by Amy Ellis Nutt
Trans Bodies, Trans Selves: A Resource for the Transgender Community
Books for Partners
Love Lives Here: A Story of Thriving in A Transgender Family by Amanda Jetté Knox
The Trans Partner Handbook: A Guide for When your Partner Transitions by Jo Green
She’s Not the Man I Married: My Life With A Transgender Husband by Helen Boyd
My Husband’s A Woman Now: A Shared Journey of Transition and Love by Leslie Hilburn Fabian
Trans-kin: A Guide for Family & Friends of Transgender People
I Know Who You Are, but What Am I?: A Partner’s Perspective on Transgender Love by Ali Sands
The Reflective Workbook for Partners of Transgender People by D.M. Maynard
She Said, She Said: Love, Loss & Living My New Normal by Anne M. Reid
Human Rights Campaign The resources in this section are intended to help LGBTQ people, their families, friends and allies, find powerful and transformative spaces to learn more about the intersection of their faith and LGBTQ issues.
Transmission Ministry Collective An online community dedicated to the spiritual care, faith formation, and leadership potential of transgender and gender-expansive Christians.
The Family Acceptance Project® is a research, intervention, education and policy initiative that works to prevent health and mental health risks for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) children and youth, including suicide, homelessness and HIV – in the context of their families, cultures and faith communities.
The Human Rights Campaign represents a force of more than 3 million members and supporters nationwide. As the largest national lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer civil rights organization, HRC envisions a world where LGBTQ people are ensured of their basic equal rights, and can be open, honest and safe at home, at work and in the community.
GLSEN offers resources to create safe and affirming schools for all, regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression.
The Trevor Project was founded in 1998 by the creators of the -Academy Award®-winning short film TREVOR, The Trevor Project is the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bis-exual, transgender, queer & questioning (LGBTQ) young people under 25. Their crisis line is 1-866-488-7386.
The Bisexual Resource Center envisions a world where love is celebrated, regardless of sexual orientation or gender expression. Because bisexuals today are still misunderstood, marginalized and discriminated against, the BRC is committed to providing support to the bisexual community and raising public awareness about bisexuality and bisexual people.
Bi.org is a project of The American Institute of Bisexuality (AIB) and the Bisexual Foundation. They are a 501(c)(3) public charity that supports and sponsors projects likely to promote understanding and visibility about bisexuality through education, research, training, and media outreach.
Services & Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Elders (SAGE USA) is the United States’ largest and oldest organization dedicated to improving the lives of LGBT older people. Founded in 1978 and headquartered in New York City, SAGE is a national organization that offers supportive services and consumer resources to LGBT older people and their caregivers.
Modern Military Association of America was formed through the merger of the American Military Partner Association and OutServe-SLDN, the Modern Military Association of America is the nation’s largest non-profit organization for the LGBTQ military and veteran community.
GLAAD the world's lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) media advocacy organization promoting and ensuring fair, accurate and inclusive coverage for LGBT people.
Lambda Legal is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, is a national organization committed to achieving full recognition of the civil rights of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender people and everyone living with HIV through impact litigation, education and public policy work.
National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR) is a non-profit, public interest law firm that litigates precedent-setting cases at the trial and appellate court levels; advocates for equitable public policies affecting the LGBT community; provides free legal assistance to LGBT people and their legal advocates; and conducts community education on LGBT issues.
ACLU works to ensure that lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer people can live openly without discrimination and enjoy equal rights, personal autonomy, and freedom of expression and association.
Transathlete is a resource for students, athletes, coaches, and administrators to find information about trans inclusion in athletics at various levels of play. This site pulls together existing information in one central location, and breaks down information into easy-to-reference areas to help you find what you need.
South Bay LGBT Center: The Lesbian, Gay, Bi & Transgender Community Organization's mission is to provide a focal point for the members of our community in the South Bay for education, social interaction, personal growth, and political power, and to foster public understanding of our community. The Center offers groups, activities, resources and support for local area LGBTQ individuals and families. LOCATION: 16610 Crenshaw Blvd. Torrance, CA 90504 CONTACT: 310-328-6550
The LGBTQ Center Long Beach advances equity for LGBTQ people through culturally responsive advocacy, education, programs, and services. The Center provides Mental Health Counseling, Legal Services, Social Services, Education & Resources, Cultural Programs and Events. LOCATION: 2017 East 4th Street, Long Beach, CA 90814 CONTACT: 562-434-4455
Los Angeles LGBT Center provides services for more LGBT people than any other organization in the world, offering programs, services, and global advocacy that span four broad categories: Health, Social Services and Housing, Culture and Education, Leadership and Advocacy. LOCATION: 1625 N. Schrader Boulevard Los Angeles, CA 90028-6213 CONTACT: 323-993-7400 Services Provided:
HIV and AIDS Specialty Care
Primary Medical Care
HIV and STD Testing and Prevention
Mental Health Services
Violence Prevention & Survivor Support
Addiction Recovery Services
Research
Pharmacy
Amaze: Animated video-based sex education platform with an age guide for videos. Developed by Advocates for Youth
Sex Etc.: Sex education platform developed by Rutgers University
Planned Parenthood US: Everything you always wanted to know about sex (but were too afraid to ask), including information on consent, contraception, and coitus itself.
Teen Health Source: Sex education platform developed by Planned Parenthood of Toronto, with an option to chat with a trained volunteer
Sex education platforms in multiple languages for our followers in:
Hablemos de Sexo y Amor en Español for our Hispanic and Latin/o/a/x followers
Safer Sex for Trans Bodies, a downloadable PDF in both English and Español, developed by the Human Rights Campaign.
Trans Youth Sexual Health Booklet, by Gendered Intelligence of the United Kingdom
For Parents
This is a Book for Parents of Gay Kids: A Question & Answer Guide to Everyday Life by Danielle Owens-Reid and Kristin Russo
How Homophobia Hurts Children: Nurturing Diversity at Home, at School and in the Community by Jean M. Baker, Ph.D.
Is It a Choice: Answers to 300 of the Most Frequently Asked Questions About Gay and Lesbian People by Eric Marcus
Always My Child: A Parent’s Guide to Understanding Your Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgendered, or Questioning Son or Daughter by Kevin Jennings
Out of the Closet, Into Our Hearts by Laura Siegel and Nancy Lamkin Olson, ed.
For Children
Hurricane Child (ages 8-12) by Kheryn Callender
Drum Roll, Please (ages 9-13) by Lisa Jenn Bigelow
Ivy Aberdeen’s Letter to the World (ages 8-12) by Ashley Herring Blake
Alan Cole is Not a Coward (ages 8-12) by Eric Bell
For Children of Same-Sex Parents
How It Feels to Have a Gay or Lesbian Parent: A Book by Kids for Kids of All Ages by Judith E. Snow
Daddy, Papa and Me by Lesléa Newman
Mommy, Moma and Me by Lesléa Newman
Baby’s First Words by Stella Blackstone & Sunny Scribens
A Tale of Two Daddies by Vanita Oelshlager
A Tale of Two Mommies by Vanita Oelshlager
The Best Man (ages 9-12) by Richard Peck
Heather Has Two Mommies by Lesley Newman and Diana Souza
How Would You Feel if Your Dad Was Gay? by Meredith Maran
And Tango Makes Three by Peter Parnell
Who’s in a Family? by Robert Skutch
Families Like Mine: Children of Gay Parents Tell It Like It Is by Abigail Garner Martin
For Teenagers and Young Adults
What if Someone I Know is Gay? : Answers to Questions About What it Means to be Gay and Lesbian by Eric Marcus
Free Your Mind: The Book for Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Youth and Their Allies by Ellen Bass and Kate Kaufman
GLBTQ: The Survival Guide for Queer and Questioning Teens by Kelly Hegel
The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing up Gay in a Straight Man’s World by Alan Downs
The Way Out: The Gay Man’s Guide to Freedom by Chris Nutter
Fiction for Teens
What if it’s Us by Becky Albertalli and Adam Silvera
Juliet Takes a Breath by Gabby Rivera
Dress Codes for Small Towns by Courtney C. Stevens
Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe by Benjamin Alire Sáenz
Star-Crossed (Middle School) by Barbara Dee
The House You Pass on the Way (12+) by Jacqueline Woodson
So Hard to Say (12+) by Alex Sánchez
For Same Sex Parents & Families
Love Makes Family: Portraits of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Parents and Their Families by Gigi Kaeser, Peggy Gillespie, Kath Weston and April
Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood: Firsthand Advice, Tips, and Stories from Lesbian and Gay Couples by Eric Rosswood
Families of Value: Intimate Profiles of Pioneering Lesbian and Gay Parents by Robert Bernstein
The Complete Lesbian and Gay Parenting Guide by Arlene Istar Lev
Books
God and the Gay Christian: The Biblical Case in Support of Same-Sex Relationships by Matthew Vines
Judaism and Homosexuality: An Authentic Orthodox View by Rabbi Chaim Rapoport
What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality by Daniel A. Helminiak, Ph.D.
Do’s & Don’ts of Dealing with the Religious Right by Marc Adams and Todd Tuttle
Stranger at the Gate: To be Gay and Christian in America by Mel White
Undivided: Coming Out, Becoming Whole, and Living Free From Shame by Vicky Beeching
Mama’s Boy, Preacher’s Son: A Memoir by Kevin Jennings
P.S. I Miss You (ages 9-12) by Jen Petro-Roy
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